Check in: friends who went quiet

Friendships often fade without anyone noticing. This page lists friends you have not written to for a while. Whether and how you reach out is up to you.

Who appears on the list

Confirmed friendships appear where the last message between you two is older than 14 days, or where no message exists yet.

Order and size

Friends you have never written to come first, then those with the oldest last message. At most 24 people are shown.

What you can do

On the page you can send an appreciation to the person. Whether you reach out any further is your decision.

Try it yourself

Signing up takes a minute and is free.

Frequently asked questions

Does my own message count too?

Yes. What counts is the last message between you two, no matter who wrote it.

Does this include group chats?

No. The list looks at messages between two people, not at groups.

Do I have to sign in?

Yes. The page shows the friends of your own account.

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